Dating not attracted to funs djuice uadatingfeed
It’s great to have that mind-blowing chemistry, but it quickly wears off if you don’t really like and don’t get along with your partner.You can fall in love gradually, it’s the same love, it can be as strong or even stronger than the first-sight kind.It’s usually the more long-lasting kind, because overwhelming chemistry can make us ‘blind’ – so we tend to overlook the signs we’re not such a great match otherwise.When you fall in love over time, it’s the opposite – you get to know someone, and start loving them for who they really are, and then chemistry follows.
At the same time – because your heart is still taken – you are not really available for a serious relationship, and that’s why you keep meeting people who don’t make the cut. We just feel sexually attracted to someone and we mistakenly conclude that means we are a good match.
You meet a lot of people, but there is never a spark.
They can look great on paper, even be quite attractive, but something is always missing. Sometimes we get into that dating funk – we socialise, go out, try hard, and still nothing happens. I got really frustrated with going on dates that never went anywhere.
If you don’t recognise your situation here, I’d love to hear about it in the comments.
Yes, you are nominally single – but your heart isn’t.